The tantric arts encompass several practices, from tantric massage and sensual touching to tantric sex.
Whether you’ve been isolated due to the COVID-19 pandemic or you’ve experienced a conscious or unconscious shift in your attitude towards sex with your partner, intimacy can lose its appeal over time. If you’ve been feeling underwhelmed with your recent sexual escapades and you’re looking for something to reignite your sexual spark, you’ve probably stumbled upon tantric sex.
So, can tantric sex help you reclaim your sex life? The art of tantra has the power to unlock your sexual desires, provide powerful healing and allow you to get back in touch with your sexual self, but it’s not that straightforward.
What Is Tantric Sex?
Tantric sex describes a wide range of rituals and practices designed to help you exercise your sexuality. Participants engage in yogic and meditative activities to form deep connections with their physical and spiritual selves, alone or with a partner. The aim is to combine your physical and spiritual energies to create powerful sensations that can provide total liberation and an overwhelming sense of oneness with the world.
Tantra has links to the Kama Sutra and the exploration of different sex positions, but they’re not explicitly the same thing. Any form of sexual experimentation can be exhilarating and highly pleasurable, although it’s not as easy as limbering up and jumping into bed to have mind-blowing, acrobatic sex; there’s a spiritual component to tantric sex that’s as important — if not more important — than the physical act itself.
How Do You Have Tantric Sex?
Before you start getting spiritual between the sheets, it’s essential to understand the fundamentals of tantric sex to have a positive experience. It might not go perfectly to plan the first time around, so understand that it’ll take patience and practice to form new connections with yourself and others.
While it’s best performed with a partner, you can perform tantric sex solo. If you're trying to re-establish a connection with your long-term partner, trying to break through to a new partner or establish a healthier relationship with yourself, diving in at the deep end can be unnerving, uncomfortable and ultimately unsuccessful.
This is why it’s important to build up to such intimate experiences slowly and progressively, which is where the tantric arts come into play. Softer forms of tantra, such as tantric meditation, sensual touching and tantric massage, are a perfect place to start for anyone looking to explore tantric sex for enjoyment, adventure and sexual healing.
How Can the Art of Tantra Benefit Your Sex Life?
The tantric arts are accessible to anyone willing to open themselves up to new experiences. While there are many forms of tantra, a tantric massage has the most tangible benefits that can be transferred to tantric sex.
When performed by a tantric professional, a tantric massage:
1. Is a Deeply Pleasurable and Immensely Satisfying Experience
If you’ve experimented with the tantric arts before or tried out something like a sexual massage, nothing comes close to the spell-binding nature of a perfectly executed tantric massage. London Tantric’s astonishing masseuses are immensely talented and well-experienced practitioners of the tantric arts, meaning they’ll be able to tantalise your senses in a way only they can.
2. Effective at Removing Sexual Blockages
If you’ve experienced a form of sexual trauma in your past, had to face sexual rejection or struggle to become aroused, tantric therapies can help you work past these issues with the expert guidance of one of our incredible tantricas. You’ll benefit from a safe, welcoming and hygienic environment in which you can relax and unwind, allowing you to slowly adjust to the touch of someone else and reconnect with your sexuality without judgement.
3. Helps to Improve Confidence Inside and Outside of the Bedroom
Your self-esteem is hugely important to your overall enjoyment of intimacy, so working on your confidence is essential if you want to experiment with something as adventurous as tantric sex. Our tantricas will help you become more aware and accepting of your body, helping you overcome self-doubt and improve your confidence in all areas of life, not just in the bedroom.
4. Build a Stronger Connection with Your Partner
Experiencing a couples massage can bring you and your partner closer together, strengthening your relationship and emboldening your physical and spiritual connection. Trust is essential to every relationship, so communicating clearly about your desires will make any tantric experience much more pleasurable and beneficial to all of the participants involved.
Using the Art of Tantra to Have More Fulfilling Sex
As humans, we crave satisfaction and fulfilment from the things we do. Intimacy lies at the heart of the fulfilment we seek, and when it goes unaddressed or unsatisfied, it can cause pervasive problems inside and outside of the bedroom.
Establishing a meaningful and wholesome relationship with your sexual self and your partner can completely revolutionise your intimate life. The tantric arts are perfect for facilitating this transformation, helping you to become sexually liberated through tantric massage and other meditative practices.
Not only can this help you on your way to exploring more adventurous activities in the form of tantric sex, but it’ll also help you in all areas of your life through improving your confidence, affirming your self-worth and allowing you to take your place in the world.
Are you interested in tantric sex and the erotic arts? Book a tantric massage in London today and find out how you can benefit from an incredibly pleasurable masterclass in tantra from one of our stunning massage therapists.
