It’s a touchy subject, but premature ejaculation can wreak havoc on your sex life, your self-confidence and even your mental health. Men who struggle with premature ejaculation often struggle to talk about it with medical professionals, not least their friends (and almost definitely not their families). This has created a stigma around a common issue that can be readily solved with the right care and attention.

It can feel emasculating, embarrassing and frustrating. However, premature ejaculation affects 20-30% of men in the UK, which means you’re far from alone in dealing with it. Tantric therapy will help you manage and resolve the issue over time, but what is classed as premature ejaculation, and how can tantric therapy help improve your sex life?

What Is Premature Ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation is a broad term that encompasses a few issues commonly associated with male sexual performance. It’s where ejaculation occurs before sex begins or too soon after sex is initiated for either partner to achieve orgasm. In either case, it can leave you and your partner annoyed and unfulfilled.

Premature ejaculation can take its toll on your relationship inside and outside of the bedroom, but all too frequently, men are reluctant to talk about these issues, leading to feelings of helplessness. While premature ejaculation isn’t a problem for most women, it’s still something that should be addressed due to its negative effects on psychological and sexual health.

The Most Common Causes of Premature Ejaculation

To better understand how to treat premature ejaculation, the root cause — or causes — of the problem need to be addressed. This is where things can seem complicated, as there are often psychological and physiological factors involved.

The NHS describes several potential psychological causes for premature ejaculation:

  • Poor Mental Health

According to the Office for National Statistics, the number of people struggling with stress, anxiety and depression has sharply increased in the past year due to the uncertainty brought about by the COVID-19 pandemic. These mental health conditions are serious, and they can negatively impact your physical and sexual health. 

  • Relationship Problems

A lack of communication, a breakdown in trust and innumerable other factors can lead to relationship problems. Arguments, break-ups and other issues can quickly ensue and influence your sexual habits. Even if you’ve never experienced any form of sexual dysfunction before, they can become apparent years into a long-standing relationship or even right at the beginning of a new one.

  • Sexual Performance Anxiety

Becoming too aroused isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but it can be a problem if it means you’re reaching the finishing line before the race has started. This frequently leads to sexual performance anxiety, which can take many forms, but essentially means you feel nervous about entering into intimate situations for fear of under-performing or not being able to make your partner reach orgasm.

  • Pre-Existing Issues around Sex

Unpleasant, abusive or traumatic sexual experiences from your past can be a source of embarrassment or shame, affecting your response to intimate situations. These previous sexual experiences can influence future sexual behaviour, something that’s commonly referred to as “conditioning”, which is hard to break free of. These past experiences are typically the cause of erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation or sexual performance anxiety.

What Can You Do about Premature Ejaculation?

Any number of the potential causes for premature ejaculation mentioned above can appear at any point during your life. They might take you by surprise and lead to further anxiety around sexual performance, especially if you’ve been with particularly unaccommodating sexual partners. While conventional techniques to improve premature ejaculation exist, they’re typically ineffective and don’t properly address the issues at hand. 

Can Tantric Therapy Help with Premature Ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation is a complex problem that needs to be addressed at different levels to create a positive outcome. Tantric therapy — including tantric massage — can be effectively used to manage both the mental and physical components that usually cause premature ejaculation.

Tantric therapy provides a level of sexual healing that cannot be matched by other forms of conventional treatment. It works by aiding the body and mind to be much more in harmony to control your orgasm response through deep, spiritual relaxation and the use of tantra — an ancient art that incorporates exercises like tantric breathing to awaken and revitalise your senses. So how does it work?

Using Tantra to Treat Premature Ejaculation

Many forms of authentic tantric massage have been used to help men and women with various sexual issues. For men, it can be used to treat premature ejaculation. 

A tantric massage will:

  • Help You Get Used to an Intimate Environment 

A highly sexually charged atmosphere can trigger men who experience premature ejaculation, but our talented, intuitive and astonishingly beautiful masseuses can help you become more comfortable being in an intimate environment. 

When you book a tantric massage — either as an out-call or in-call experience — our beautiful masseuses will set the scene perfectly with scented candles, essential oils, relaxing music and, of course, their incredibly erotic presence. They’ll guide you through the experience while helping you stay in perfect control wherever you feel most comfortable, whether that’s at a hotel in London or a luxury apartment owned by one of our masseuses. 

  • Help You Stay in Control

The brain and body go through several stages before the climax is reached. Orgasm and ejaculation are different physiological processes, even though they may seem interlinked.

This means that sexual cues perceived by the brain and sensory inputs must be carefully managed to ensure that neither orgasm nor ejaculation occurs too quickly or before intimacy has been initiated. By gently caressing and massaging your body, paying close attention to your most sensitive areas, our beautiful and talented masseuses will allow you to feel incredible pleasure while helping you become aware of and regain control of these processes. 

This form of sexual enlightenment can be a complete revelation for some men, especially if you haven’t had the chance to be in the company of such attentive and affectionate partners.

  • Increase Your Sexual Stamina

If premature ejaculation frequently occurs in the first few seconds of intimacy, it can harm your sexual relationships. If this common yet taboo subject isn’t discussed or attended to, feelings of resentment can start to brew, leading to relationship problems and more than a little sexual frustration.

As part of a tantric massage, our masseuses will use their soft, caring hands to engage all of your senses, allowing you to feel the overwhelming pleasure that keeps you right at the edge of orgasm. With enough practice and repeat sessions, our incredible masseuses will help you improve your sexual stamina.

They’ll help you identify the powerful and sometimes spiritual sensations that would otherwise lead to premature ejaculation using these tried-and-tested tantric techniques. And soon, you won’t have to worry about how long you'll last in bed. You’ll eventually become the master of your domain and enjoy being able to give and receive pleasure without any of your previous hang-ups or anxieties.

Using Tantric Therapy to Treat Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation is a complex issue that can affect your confidence, mental well-being and intimate relationships. It’s nothing to be ashamed of, and it’s increasingly common. Taking positive steps can significantly benefit you and your partner — or any future partners — so don’t be afraid to reach out for the necessary help and guidance about problems relating to premature ejaculation or any sexual dysfunction.

Why Choose London Tantric for Tantric Therapy?

At London Tantric, we pride ourselves on our exceptional service. Our captivatingly beautiful masseuses are welcoming and gentle, and will create a safe space where you can effectively overcome any sexual barriers you’re facing. The massage therapists you’ll meet are experienced in dealing with all kinds of sexual issues, meaning they’ll be able to help you work past any problems with intimacy confidently, caringly and without judgment. 

Looking for effective premature ejaculation therapy in London? Get in touch with our friendly, professional and discreet reception team about a tantric massage today and discover a natural and effective way to beat premature ejaculation in an incredibly pleasurable way.